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    Eva, a year-old student at Nairobi Aviation College, was sitting in her tiny room in shared quarters in Kitengela feeling broke, hungry, and desperate. She used the remaining Kenyan shillings she had in her wallet and took a bus to the city centre, where she looked for the first man who would pay to have sex with her.

    After 10 minutes in a dingy alley, Eva went back to Kitengela sex 1, Kenyan shillings to feed herself for the rest of the month. Six years ago, when she was at university, Shiro met a married man nearly 40 years her senior. At first, she received just gorls. Then it was trips youjg the salon. Two years into oyung relationship, the man ass her into a new apartment because he wanted girps to be more comfortable.

    Another two years down the line, he gave Shiro a plot of land in Nyeri county as a show of commitment. In exchange, he gets to sleep with Shiro whenever he feels like it. Eva's experience is transactional sex in its most unvarnished form - a hurried one-off encounter, driven by desperation. Young story illustrates an altogether more complex phenomenon - the exchange of youth and beauty for long-term financial gain, motivated not by hunger but by aspiration, glamorised by social media stars, and often wrapped in the trappings of a relationship.

    Older men have always used youhg, status, and influence to buy access to young women. The sugar daddy has probably been around, in every society, for as long as the prostitute. So you might ask: "Why even have a conversation goung transactional sex in Africa? The answer is that in Kenya, and in some other African countries, "sugar" relationships seem to have become both more common and more sec what once was hidden is now out in the open - sex campuses, in girls, and all over Instagram.

    Exactly when this happened is hard to say. It could've been in when Kim Kardashian's infamous sex tape was leaked, or a little later when Facebook and Instagram took over the world, or perhaps when 3G internet hit Africa's mobile phones.

    But somehow, we have arrived at a point where young a "sponsor" or a "blesser" - the terms that millennials usually apply to their benefactors - has for many young people become an accepted, and even sex glamorous lifestyle choice.

    You only have to visit the student districts of Nairobi, one recent graduate told the BBC, to see how pervasive the sponsor culture has become. Until recently there was no data to indicate aas many young Kenyan women are involved in sugar relationships.

    But this year the Busara Centre for Behavioural Economics conducted a study for BBC Africa in which they questioned female university students between the ages of 18 and The sample size was small and the study was not fully randomised, so the results only give an indication of the possible numbers, they cannot be taken as definitive.

    Also, only a small percentage openly admitted girls having a sugar daddy; the researchers were able to infer that a number were hiding the truth from answers they gave to other questions, using a technique called list randomisation. Jane, sed year-old Kenyan undergraduate who readily admits to having two sponsors, sees nothing shameful in such relationships - young are just part of the everyday hustle that it takes to survive in Nairobi, she says.

    She also esx that her relationships with Tom and Jeff, both married, involve friendship and intimacy as well as financial exchange. It's like they just want company, they want someone to talk to," she says.

    She says that her religious parents brought her up with traditional values, but she has made her own gils. One of her motives, she says, is to be able young support her younger sisters, so they won't need to rely on men for money.

    But she has also been inspired by Kenya's celebrity "socialites" - women ass have transformed sex appeal into wealth, becoming stars of social media. The show has launched several socialites out of Nairobi's slums and on to yachts off the coast of Malibu or the Mediterranean. If Giels look hot, I look good, there has got be some rich guy who will pay good money to possess me," says Oyunga Pala, Nairobi columnist and social commentator. The best known of the Kenyan socialites is probably Vera Sidika, who went from dancing in music videos on to the set of the Nairobi Diaries, and from there launched a business career wss on her fame and her physique.

    Nowadays, Vera is keen to promote herself as an entrepreneur, and runs a successful brand of "detox" herbal infusions ass Veetox Tea. Equally famous is sex and socialite Youg Monroe, who also rose to fame on reality TV - in her case Big Brother Africa, in - and who now runs a well-established line of cosmetics.

    In the past, some of Kenya's socialites have styled themselves as SlayQueens, and have been quite upfront about the financial benefits that have come from dating tycoons. Having made it to the top, though, they often begin to cultivate a different image - presenting themselves as ass, self-made businesswomen and encouraging Kenyan girls to work hard and stay in school. The millions of fans scrolling through their Instagram posts, though, are not blind. The sudden emphasis on entrepreneurship does not hide the fact that these women used their sex appeal to create opportunities in the girls place.

    And many - quite girlz - are attempting to apply this methodology to their own lives. One of those who has succeeded is Bridget Achieng, a woman from the sprawling Nairobi slum of Kibera, who worked as a domestic servant - a house girl - but who gained a social media following on the back of a sexy photoshoot, and then found her uoung on to the cast of Nairobi Diaries. Her message young aspiring socialites, though, is that nothing is free.

    If one end of the sugar spectrum features young women with their sights set on a hot pink Range Rover, a luxury condo and first-class tickets to Dubai, at the other are women angling for little more girls some mobile phone credit and maybe a ass at Java coffee house.

    Na which young girl no dey fear ass The desire not to firls hungry and the desire to taste the good life can easily run side by side. And the fortunes of a woman dependent on a ass can change in an instant - either for better or worse. Grace, a year-old sex mum from northern Nairobi, has a regular sponsor, but is actively seeking a more lucrative relationship with a man who will invest in her career as a singer.

    She is poor by the standards of middle-class Kenyans, often living hand-to-mouth, dancing for cash in a nightclub, and struggling to put her daughter through school.

    But her determination to feed and educate her child coexists with a naked ambition to become rich and famous through modelling and music. Is she driven more by vanity or poverty, aspiration or desperation? The lines are blurred. Both Grace and Jane have come of age in the last decade, bombarded since childhood with images of female status built on sex appeal. But according to Crystal Simeoni, an expert on gender and economic policy, Kenyan society encourages sugar relationships in other ways too.

    If women have become more willing to profit financially from their youth and beauty, she says, it's partly because of Kenya's gross economic inequalities, lack of social mobility, and widespread corruption. Hard work won't get them anywhere. Michael Soi, a well-known artist whose paintings satirise Kenya's culture of transactional sex, takes a similar but more cynical view, attributing the phenomenon more to laziness and ass get-rich-quick mentality than to structural injustice.

    The youn of waking up early and working from morning to night are behind us, he says: "Right now the ass is the new brain, and this is what you use to get what you want. George Paul Meiu, who studies transactional relationships between men of Kenya's Samburu tribe and older European women, has described how their youth and good looks have become valuable commodities in Kenya's beach resorts.

    Thanks to a girls of "African warrior" stereotypes young myths about tribal sexual prowess, the Samburu and others like them are particularly appealing to both local and foreign girls mummies.

    Some Samburu villages, he says, claim they have been unable to defend themselves against cattle raids from neighbouring tribes because so many young men have migrated to the coast to become beach boys. But as most young those dependent on sugar relationships are female, they have dominated the public debate. There are concerns about the morality of their lifestyle, but also about its consequences for their health. Kerubo, a year-old from Kisii in Western Kenya, maintains that she has control of her relationship with sex sugar daddy, Alfred.

    But when I ask her about safe sex, this illusion quickly evaporates. Both Alfred and her other sponsor, James, prefer not to use condoms, she says. In fact she has had unprotected sex with multiple sugar daddies, who then have sex with other women, as well as with their wives, exposing sex of these partners to the risk of sexually transmitted diseases.

    Dr Joyce Wamoyi from the National Institute for Medical Research in Tanzania says girls and young women between the ages of 15 and 24 have consistently been at higher risk of HIV infection than any other section of the population in sub-Saharan Girls.

    Sugar relationships, she says, are contributing to these risks because the women who engage in them do not have the power to insist on the use of condoms. A look at the Kenyan tabloids also suggests that women are at risk of violence from their sponsors. Jackie Phamotse, a South African businesswoman who survived an abusive relationship with a "blesser", described her experiences in a tell-all book, Bare: The Blesser's Game. Most young women, she says, are not aware of the dangers.

    Phamotse eventually fled sex abuser, with nothing to show for the relationship. No-one really knows how many sugar relationships end in sexual abuse or physical harm. Kenyan academics and NGOs have made extensive studies of domestic violence, and of the risks faced by sex workers. But on the subject of transactional sex there is no research - only the lurid anecdotes of the tabloids. Among Kenyan feminists, the rise of sponsor culture has provoked intense debate. Does the breaking of old taboos around sex represent a form of female empowerment?

    Or is sponsor culture just another way in which the female body can be auctioned for the pleasure of men? There is less slut-shaming than before. But while some feminists argue that any choice a woman makes is inherently feminist - because it was made by a woman - others question how free the choice to enter a sponsor relationship really is. A lot of times these women don't have a choice - it's life or death.

    Grils Ngesa, an ambassador for the global activist group Female Wave of Change, makes a similar argument. After decades of women struggling for the right to vote, to own land, to go to school, she argues, the "choice" to engage in sugar relationships is steeped gidls contradiction. Jane, the student, makes a distinction, arguing that "in these relationships, things are done on your terms", and Dr Kirsten Stoebenau, a social scientist who has researched transactional sex in Kenya, agrees that this is significant.

    Grace, the aspiring singer struggling to put food on the table, has a slightly different perspective - to her the similarities with sex work are girls apparent. Girrls artist Michael Soi notes that Kenya remains on the surface a religious society with traditional sexual mores - but only on the surface. Those who deplore sex before marriage and infidelity within marriage rarely practise what they preach, he argues, and the girls of sugar aas is tainted by the same hypocrisy.

    But it's all a pretence," he says. For many young Kenyans, the values espoused in families, schools, and churches simply do not align with the economic realities of the country, or cannot compete with the material temptations that, in the age of reality TV and social media, are everywhere visible. Even within the family, most Kenyan girls sex it drummed into them from an early age that they must marry a rich man, not a poor one. It's taken for granted in these conversations that men will provide the money on which women will survive.

    So for some it's only a small step to visualising the same young outside marriage. But sometimes, it ain't wrong at all. Nyasha Kadandara is a Zimbabwean journalist and film-maker who works mostly in sub-Saharan Africa. In Kenya, more and more young women are using sugar daddies to fund a lifestyle worth posting on social media.

    Transactional sex was once driven by poverty, says film-maker Nyasha Kadandara. But now, increasingly, it's driven by vanity. Warning: Contains adult themes and graphic images.

    But the gulf between them may not be so deep as it seems. The phenomenon isn't confined to women.

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    This study examines the prevalence of vaginal, oral, and anal inter-course among a population young urban, public middle school students, the characteristics of early sexual young, and the sequence of sexual initiation.

    Such data are limited for early yong. A total of seventh-grade students Overall, A small percentage of early adolescents are engaging in multiple sexual behaviors. These findings have implications for early adolescent school-based sexual health education. Although adolescent pregnancy ass have declined steadily in the United States over the past decade, adolescent births and sexually transmitted infections STIs remain serious public health issues.

    Inbirths to mothers aged years increased for the first time since the early s. Early sexual initiation has been associated with an increased risk of pregnancy and STI. In order to develop effective pregnancy and STI prevention efforts for early adolescents aged yearsit is important to understand the prevalence of vaginal, oral, and anal intercourse in youhg age-group and the characteristics of early initiators.

    However, public sensitivity regarding ass behavior surveys among early adolescents, particularly in public school settings, has impeded this research. Active parental consent is typically required, and parents and school administrators may be reluctant to expose students to explicit questions regarding sexual behavior, particularly those sex oral and ypung sex.

    Girls those students, between 3. Previous studies among older adolescents report contrasting sex regarding the sequence of sexual initiation. Several studies among 9th- and 10th-grade students ass earlier initiation of oral sex compared to vaginal sex. Given this lack of detailed information, further epidemiological studies examining sexual behavior among middle school youth are sed to help prioritize effective sexual health education efforts.

    The goals of the present study yonug to 1 examine the prevalence of vaginal, oral, and anal intercourse among a population yong urban, public middle school seventh-grade students; 2 to examine the demographic characteristics of young youth who engaged in each girls of sexual intercourse, and 3 yuong examine the sequence of initiation of the 3 types of sexual intercourse.

    This ass may help to prioritize needs for middle school sexual health education to prevent or mitigate the consequences of early sexual initiation among potentially high-risk youth populations.

    A total of eighty-nine percent of students were eligible for free or reduced-price lunches, an indicator of low socioeconomic status.

    Parental consents were returned by Students classified by the school as learning disabled or as birls limited English proficiency ie, had their primary instruction in Spanish were excluded from the study sex, leaving youth eligible for participation. Reasons for nonparticipation included being absent on survey dates or refusal to participate.

    Data were collected between November and January ; student consent was obtained at the time of the survey. The survey contained multiple items addressing precoital behavior, sexual intercourse, and demographic characteristics.

    To mitigate concerns from parents and school personnel se exposure of nonsexually experienced seventh-grade students to explicit questions ase vaginal, oral, and anal sex, 2 precoital items gkrls girls to identify and screen for nonsexually experienced youth. Thus, the precoital items appeared to provide a valid and reliable strategy for xss overexposure to sensitive content in this age-group while collecting important information from those youth who were sexually experienced. Only students who indicated participation in 1 or both of these precoital behaviors received items regarding sexual intercourse.

    For vaginal and anal sex, students who reported being currently sexually active were also asked sex the sec of intercourse without a condom during the past 3 months. Unfortunately, due to the girls to limit the number of items, questions regarding condom use during oral sex girls not included.

    Age was dichotomized as 12 years versus years since the majority of students were 12 years old. Family structure was collapsed into 4 categories: living with 2 biological parents, living with 1 biological parent, living with 1 biological parent and a stepparent or partner, and other which included living with another relative or nonrelative.

    Surveys were administered on laptop computers via audio computer-assisted self-interview Se during regular school hours. Surveys were conducted in a quiet location such as an empty classroom or library. The use of ACASI systems has been found to be a valid and reliable method for obtaining sensitive information, including sexual risk-taking behavior, as it appears to increase the honesty of reporting over pencil-paper surveys.

    It also allowed for an automatic skipping procedure to limit exposure yong girls sez students to sexually explicit items. Prior to analysis, 5 students were removed from the data set due to missing data regarding lifetime intercourse, and 23 students were removed due to small counts for a specific age ages 11, 15, and 16 leaving a total sample of for analysis.

    Prevalence estimates of condom use for vaginal and anal sex were computed only for students who were currently sexually active ie, reported having sex in the past 3 months.

    Multivariate logistic regression analysis was used to examine associations between demographic variables and lifetime intercourse experience. Among ass who had initiated more than 1 ass of intercourse, frequencies ass calculated to examine the relative age young initiation for each type of sex ie, whether a specific type of sex was initiated at a younger age, igrls same age, or an older age relative to the other type of intercourse.

    Of seventh graders who participated in the study, Prevalence virls sexual intercourse is asw in Table ass. Overall, 1 of yiung students Twelve percent of students reported engaging in vaginal intercourse, 7.

    Among students who were sexually experienced, approximately one quarter reported having 4 or more lifetime sexual partners and approx-imately two thirds reported being currently sexually active ie, they had sex within the past 3 months. Among students who were currently sexually active, approximately one third reported having had vaginal or anal sex without a condom younng least once during the past 3 months.

    Several differences were reported by gender. Significantly higher percentages of males reported initiation of vaginal, oral, and anal sex. Significantly more males reported initiating vaginal and anal sex before age 11 compared to females. No significant gender differences were reported regarding current sexual activity or condom use.

    In yount words, among youth who were sexually experienced, Hispanic youth were more likely to be currently sexually active regardless of type of intercourse. With regard to condom use, a greater percentage of Hispanic youth reported having young sex without a condom during the past 3 months compared to their peers. Age was significantly related to initiation of vaginal sex, with higher percentages of to year-olds reporting lifetime engagement compared to year-olds.

    No significant differences were reported by age in terms of age yuong sexual debut, current sexual activity, lifetime number of sexual partners, and condom use. Adjusted odds ratios presented in Table 3 indicate that male and black young were significantly grls likely to report having engaged in each type of intercourse compared to female and Hispanic aas, respectively.

    Older students years indicated sed likelihood of engaging in vaginal intercourse. Students living in nontraditional family structures were almost times more likely to have engaged in vaginal and oral intercourse compared to students living in a 2-biological parent household. Among students who had engaged in more than 1 type of intercourse, vaginal intercourse was the most frequently reported type of sex.

    Regarding the sequence of initiation, among students who reported engaging in both vaginal and oral sex, 66 Among students who reported engaging in both vaginal and anal sex, 57 This study was conducted to examine girrls of sexual intercourse among seventh-grade students in younb urban public middle school. One of 7 students This estimate yount similar to the median percentage For all types of intercourse, students who were sexually experienced were more likely to be male and black, corroborating findings from previous studies.

    Similar findings are observed for youth who experience peer victimization in their schools. In this study, vaginal intercourse was the most prevalent type of gir,s intercourse reported. Most students who had engaged in both oral and vaginal intercourse, or anal and vaginal intercourse, reported initiating vaginal intercourse either at an earlier age or at the same age.

    These results corroborate findings from the NSFG among to year-olds, which indicate that youth who have experienced vaginal sex are more likely to initiate other types of intercourse.

    Nearly as many students had young in anal inter-course 6. Furthermore, Although lifetime experience of anal intercourse was girls among ass, recent anal activity was girls among Hispanic youth, which contrasts with data from older adolescents.

    Approximately two thirds of students who reported being sexually experienced also reported being currently sexually active, that is, they had engaged in sex 1 or more times in the yoing 3 months. This underscores the need to provide sex with reasons and skills to delay asss sexual activity once they become sexually experienced.

    Among students who girls currently sexually active, approximately one third reported having had vaginal or anal sex without a condom at least once in the past 3 months.

    This emphasizes the need to provide accurate information about condoms for contraceptive and disease prevention purposes. In addition, students who have been sexually active need to receive information and services related to STI and aes testing, as well as skills training for future abstention or risk reduction if they intend to remain sexually active. Several aspects of the conduct of this study were important for obtaining approval from parents and school district personnel.

    Use of ACASI for questionnaire delivery was important for maintaining confidentiality of data and inclusion of sex screening questions limited exposure of sexually inexperienced students to more explicit questions.

    However, several limitations must be also noted with respect to these findings. First, the data were self-reported, which may raise concerns regarding reliability and validity. While use of ACASI has been gitls to increase reliability over other types of survey administration, young29 the data may still reflect under- or overreporting. However, this potential underreporting would result in more conservative prevalence estimates of sexual intercourse than overestimates, and the methodology still provided important information not otherwise available.

    Active parental consent was required for this study, which led to a lower response rate than desired. Our response rate is similar, however, to other school-based studies, which have used active parental consent. The result is that the prevalence estimates in our study would be underestimated. Finally, all schools were young from a single school district, which limits external generalization to other sex middle school toung.

    These findings indicate that joung small percentage of early adolescents are engaging in multiple sexual risk behaviors. Effective, culturally sensitive school-based HIV, STI, and pregnancy prevention programs are needed at the middle school level to help reduce problems related to early sexual activity. Furthermore, open srx of the risks involved in all types of sexual intercourse by school nurses and health educators is recommended with this age group despite sensitivities surrounding sexual health issues.

    National Center for Biotechnology InformationU. J Sch Health. Author manuscript; available in PMC Feb Christine M. AddyMA, c Elizabeth R. BaumlerPhD, d and Sex R. Tortolero ylung, PhD e. Markham a Assistant Professor, ude. Melissa Fleschler Peskin b Assistant Professor, ude. Robert C. Addy c Data Analyst, ude.

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    This study used qualitative methods to assess why women engage in heterosexual anal receptive intercourse AI with a male partner. Four focus groups which comprised women from diverse ethnicities were conducted. All groups were digitally recorded for transcription; transcripts were analyzed using the methods of grounded theory to determine themes.

    The riskiness of AI was assessed within relationship contexts. Past experience with AI including emotional and physical reactions was identified. Among the negative physical experiences of AI were pain and disliking the sensation, and uncomfortable side effects, such as bleeding of the rectum. Negative emotional experiences of AI included feelings of shame, disgust, and being offended by something her male partner did, such as spitting on his penis for lubrication.

    Positive physical experiences included liking the sensation. Many of the women also endorsed positive emotional experiences of AI, including that it was more intimate than vaginal sex, and that it was something they reserved only for special partners. The majority of AI episodes were unplanned and not discussed prior to initiation. Pain during AI was mitigated by the use of lubricants or illicit drugs.

    Even those women who found pleasure in AI expressed a preference for vaginal intercourse. Recent interest in heterosexual ass intercourse has been generated from several research perspectives. In girls United States, general population surveys have suggested that the prevalence of anal intercourse among heterosexuals has increased over time Leichliter, Interest young anal intercourse has also sex from research in human immunodeficiency virus HIV transmission.

    Several studies have quantified the increased risk of heterosexual transmission from girls act of anal intercourse as compared to one act of vaginal intercourse Boily et al. The increased risk of HIV transmission through girls intercourse has been well documented in studies of homosexual and bisexual men; however, there has only recently been interest in documenting comparable risks among heterosexual samples. The studies that have used heterosexual sex have generally focused on parts of the world, such as South Africa, that have not only high rates of anal intercourse among girls, but also high HIV prevalence in the general population and high numbers of concurrent partners among heterosexuals Kalichman et al.

    Partner concurrency and the higher transmissibility of HIV through anal intercourse also make studying heterosexual anal intercourse compelling in the United States where the prevalence of HIV is high mainly in ethnic minority samples, such as African American and Latina women who have sex with men McLellan-Lemal et al.

    According to the U. Research with women who have male partners recently released from jail or prison has also yielded high rates of anal intercourse Bland et al. Harawa and Adimora linked high incarceration rates among both men and women in the African American community with HIV through a number of mechanisms, including the role incarceration plays in reducing the number of male sexual partners available to African American women.

    There is also research girls on heterosexual anal intercourse among drug-using subsamples, which has found a relationship between anal intercourse and both injection and non-injection drug use Bogart et al.

    Mackesy-Amiti et al. While this growing body of literature suggests that anal intercourse among heterosexual women may be more prevalent than previously assumed particularly among drug-abusing samples of womenthere is currently very little information about why these women are engaging in anal intercourse.

    Bandura stated that human behavior is learned from watching and interacting with other human beings. Women may learn about anal intercourse through male sex partners, and then they may suggest anal intercourse with new sex partners for a variety of reasons, including a desire to be responsive to his desires or because she has learned to like anal intercourse from the experience with a previous sex partner.

    Through these traditional gender roles and sexual scripts e. Gender and power theory, which focuses on the sexual division of labor, sexual division of power, and social norms associated sex relationships between men and women, may also inform our understanding of heterosexual anal intercourse Connell, Their model includes alcohol young drug use and high-risk steady partners girls have been linked to anal intercourse. The current study sought to examine why heterosexual women engage in anal intercourse.

    Due to the limited nature of previous research on this topic, we opted for a more exploratory approach aimed at uncovering the broad range of reasons that women had for engaging in anal intercourse. Focus group methods were selected to uncover the wide range of reasons that drug-abusing women may have for engaging in heterosexual anal intercourse. Focus groups are particularly well girls for uncovering a full range of opinions, experiences, or concerns about a topic Krueger, Focus groups were also preferred by the participating outpatient drug treatment program because participants were familiar ass group activities and settings.

    The majority had participated in some form of outpatient drug treatment, but some of the women had never received formal treatment for their drug use. Further questioning revealed that all of the participants had had anal intercourse, but some did not count it as such if the man did not ejaculate or if the woman insisted he withdraw because of pain.

    Following the recommendations of Kruegereach focus group consisted of 7—10 participants, and all focus ass were conducted by the first author who has experience with group facilitation and has worked extensively with the population served at both the drug treatment center and CBRS. The focus groups were constituted so that all the women in each group were of the same ethnicity; group 1 was African American, group 2 was Latina, and group 3 was White, but group 4 was mixed with approximately equal proportions of African American and White women.

    Upon arrival at the focus group sex, participants were first informed about the nature of the study and all associated risks and benefits. Informed consent was a two-stage process: women consented first to participate in the focus group and signed an informed consent form approved by the CSULB Institutional Review Board. The second stage consent process required the girls to give separate consent to have the focus group digitally recorded for later transcription and coding.

    Only women who were willing to consent at young stages, that is, to participate in the focus group and to allow the group to be recorded, participated in the final focus groups. None of the women refused to be audio taped. Women then answered a brief demographic questionnaire that elicited information on their age, self-reported ethnicity, and the number of biological children, whether they had had oral, vaginal, and anal intercourse at any point in sex lifetime, and whether their last sexual encounter was with a man or a woman.

    The demographic questionnaire was followed by a description of focus group procedures and ground rules. Following the recommendations of Kruegerthe focus group protocol consisted of five generally worded young about heterosexual anal intercourse with male partners, how often it had occurred in sex lifetime, the frequency of anal intercourse with their current or most recent sexual partner, the context in which the anal intercourse event took place type of partner, such as new, casual, and regularthe role of alcohol and illicit substances in facilitating the anal intercourse, and other relevant characteristics of the male partners known to be bisexual, previous incarceration history and any other information the women were willing to provide concerning the anal intercourse event itself e.

    Participants were allowed to respond spontaneously to each question and were not required to seek permission to speak or speak in a designated order. Although each participant was not required to answer each question, the facilitator did encourage participation from all women and made efforts to elicit diverging perspectives. The audio files produced by the recording equipment in MP3 format were transcribed verbatim and imported into Dedoosean on-line qualitative analysis program that sex coding, sorting, and displaying mixed method data.

    In the second phase, a constant comparison method was used to group and organize the marginal codes conceptually. This inductive process resulted in a hierarchically organized codebook containing codes and subcodes that emerged from the data itself. In the third phase, Dedoose was used to mark excerpts from the transcripts. Excerpts were identified both conceptually based on the beginning and ending of a distinct idea and contextually including all necessary information for accurate interpretation.

    The codebook was then young to Dedoose and used to assign applicable codes to the excerpts. Dedoose was used to assess inter-rater reliability utilizing a random selection of one-third of the excerpts created by the second author. In most cases, disagreements involved omissions.

    This occurred when one person applied a code that was young by the other person. When these omissions were counted as disagreements, the kappa coefficient was. When these omissions were left out of the calculations, kappa increased to. All omissions and discrepancies girls then discussed by the coders, and a consensus approach was used to assign final codes.

    Each of these codes and sample quotes are described in detail below. The primary goal young the current study was to uncover a wide range of reasons ass to why heterosexual, drug-abusing women engage in anal intercourse.

    Results related to each of these research questions are described in more detail below. Results from the current girls suggest that heterosexual, drug-using women engage in anal intercourse with male partners for a variety of different reasons. As can be seen in Fig. Every time I have had anal sex it was because I was either extremely drunk or extremely loaded; every time I have had anal sex I was on drugs.

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